Anonymous asked: So I'm kinda caught between two boys. One I've known quite some time and I know at one point he did have feelings for me and he's really sweet. The other guy has his moments where he's not so nice but when he wants to be he can be incredibly sweet. I honestly have no idea what to do. I'm rather shy with these things so I wouldn't even know if I could tell either of them how I feel,

There’s really not much information to go off of. Do you have a thing with either of then, do they like you? Are you talking? It appears that you have a crush on them, in that case if you feel their worthy, and trust me.. I know this can be hard to do, but simply tell them however you do feel. Try to wait for the time to be right, as in don’t vent your feelings to them if you can sense them trying to distance themselves from you ect.. goodluck (:

Anonymous asked: There's a guy i'm really into and i think he might like me, we get a long and i sit next to him in a few lessons. i want to ask him out or hint to him that i like him, but i don't know how to. he's said before that he doesn't want a girlfriend because if they break up they wont be friends anymore. I don't get to talk to him much and i don't know how to tell him without looking silly or him thinking i'm joking around with him.

Well, you should first get to know him a little better, to see what he likes. From the description, it doesn’t seem like you know him all that well. He may be saying that he doesn’t want a girlfriend so that he doesn’t get attached, and that may be from a past relationship, but not always. Just get to know him a little better, and take it from there.

-Mackenzie

Anonymous asked: Theres a boy at my school whose name is rodger and we were on and off for about a year and alot of things went down between us but whenever he did anything wrong i always found a way to forgive him, because i loved him. and when i did something wrong one time, he ended it. i swear sometimes theres something between us still and others we act as if we cant stand each other. i want more than anything just for one more chance of there being an us, but im almost positive he doesnt. idk what to do...

Sometimes, relationships end shitty. I’ve been there. He may have a set decision that he isn’t going to change, and there’s nothing that you can do to change that, usually, when that decision is made, it doesn’t change. But there is a possibility that it could, so maybe give it a try.

Anonymous asked: There's this guy I like a lot, and he likes me too supposedly. Lately, ever since this other girl started talking to him, we started drifting. I got to see him yesterday and we were acting like our normal selves around each other. We were acting like a couple. We both don't like relationships, so we're holding off on one and not rushing into one. He says he'd never date the other girl because of the distance. He finds my jealousy to be "cute". I care for him a lot, and I want things to be normal

You have to find a way to figure out what he’s thinking. This “other girl” might get in the way of what you both might have. First, figure out what’s going on there.

-Mackenzie

Anonymous asked: I have a boyfriend which i really like, but his friend is the guy i once loved. And his friend comes round to my boyfriends all the time when i am there. Everytime he comes round i get this feeling of so much hurt, it's like i still love him, but i don't. He hurt me so much, and my boyfriend treats me so well, but how do i stop all this hurting?

You need to realize that he did hurt you and there’s not going back. The boyfriend you have now is great obviously so don’t let his friend get between you guys. If you need to, let your current boyfriend know that you feel uncomfortable around you ex, he should understand.

Anonymous asked: Okay, I met this kid and he said he wanted to get to know me better and we call me beautiful etc etc and the FIRST DAY we started talking he asked me out and I said, "No I wanna get to know you better." He agreed. The thanksgiving break came and we only spoke once. But at school it's like we were together and he said he wants to but we wanted to know each other better. I told him I was ready but he wasn't. It feels like a break up. 2 weeks without school went by and I see him and I feel guilty.

In my opinion, I think you should confront him about it. It seems like you both were really interested, and you didn’t want to move to fast. That’s understandable. So the best advice I can say is try. If you don’t try, all you’ll do is regret. Which never makes you happy. 

-court

Anonymous asked: i need your help. my mom won't let me stretch my ears. i want them so bad, i've litterly done everything. WHAT. DO. I. DO.

NO IDEA. I’M HAVING THE SAME FUCKING PROBLEM RIGHT NOW TOO OMG.
-court 

Honestly I recommend that you don’t do it. I did it and I got to 7/16” and I got tired of them and I took them out. Now I have slits in my ears and all the earings that I wear have to have special backs or they will sag. But if you want to continue doing it, I suggest getting tunnels and putting bigger earings through them so that it covers the tunnels, my friend did that and it worked for her.

-Mack

Anonymous asked: When/How do I tell my mom about me doing drugs ?

Drugs aren’t a good thing to be involved in, and you should really be truthful with your mom. She has given you the gift of life, and for you to be doing something that could waste that gift, is wrong to her. I recommend being honest and telling her the truth right away.

-Mack

Anonymous asked: Hello. So it's hard to explain but there's this one guy that I like that I hardly and rarely see. He's my cousin's wife's brother. I don't know a lot about him. We're both shy and the only times I see him is when I go to my cousins house to celebrate like a party or something and when I do see him I don't know what to do. We've never talked and I'd like to do something to break the silence but I don't know how to. I don't want to go on forever without even smiling when he's right in front of me.

When you visit your cousin’s, try and talk to him. c: Don’t be so shy, you may really end up liking this guy, and if you get to know him more, you could have possibilities together.

-Mack

Anonymous asked: So I'm dating this one guy and I like him a lot, but his best friend is my ex and I'm still madly in love with him. He's still in love with me too. The only reason why we didn't get back together after we broke up is because we fight a lot, and we still do. I don't know if my current boyfriend knows how I feel about my ex and I don't know what I'm supposed to do with this situation. I don't like breaking hearts but I don't like being confused. I really just don't know what to do.

First of all, you shouldn’t be dating someone if you are still in love with someone else, that’s sorta wrong. You’re in a way lying to the person that you’re with, and that’s not a healthy relationship. You need to either end things with your ex, or be honest with your current boyfriend and tell him how you feel.

-Mack